3 years-ish in the past, we met men on the internet, we’ll phone him “D”, on Myspace. It had been pretty simple, in which he had been relatively HOT. And also by fairly, What i’m saying is SO.CUTE. It was not some large relationship, I was between interactions but we provided songs preferences, a dry (ahem devastatingly witty) love of life and we also both lived in L.A. Emails slowly progressed to sms to haphazard calls. Once again, perhaps not a large love affair, but seriously anything with prospective.

He’d ask us to spend time, and then cancel. This pattern would repeat, duplicate, recurring. I would take their community and inquire him to meet up for coffee/lunch but he usually had programs. Exactly what a coincidence, right? We hardly ever really cared also much-I began another relationship and simply registered “D” away as a text/email friend and then he felt happy to only disappear obviously as my connection using my now boyfriend advanced.

Today, we’re pals on Twitter and Twitter, in which he drunk texts me personally ALL.THE.TIME. He emails me audio he believes we’ll like (i usually love it) and he calls me personally as soon as every few weeks. Event from the social media marketing stalking I’ve completed, he’s single…goes out all the time, does not have a girlfriend or ten kids…and there is no reason we’ve gotn’t strung aside. Easily end answering him, I have “Where could you be? We miss you!” messages, etc. He is lent an online hand during crisis within my life, delivers me small (non creepy) provides for my birthday celebration and Christmas and seems to be the guy…but its so hard to tell, since the guy will not come-out from behind the computer.

It’s very confusing, because although i’m therefore pleased inside my connection, I think about “D” a buddy. But are we?

I get that maybe the guy is not that enthusiastic about meeting me personally in person, and I also’m okay with that. In all honesty, I’m not interested in him romantically in just about any way-I mean, a man exactly who takes three years to obtain something completed is certainly not attractive! If he’sn’t interested, or wasn’t interested three years ago…why really does he hold calling/texting/tweeting/emailing/facebooking?

Feasible Responses.
1. he is shy/intimidated-this is their reason before but I am not sure I purchase it.
2. he’s not whom he is apparently on the web. My personal only problem with this is that his Twitter seems to be filled with “real” existence friends and family, and he constantly has actually brand-new pictures-I learn where he operates, where the guy lives-whoa we seem like a creep. HOWEVER-we’ve all heard the Catfish story, correct? Never could be also cautious! But i am talking about, their mom demonstrably comments on their posts, and I also cannot imagine she’sn’t genuine!
3. He likes having a stylish lady give him interest but the guy does not have to step-up with the plate and actually “DO” everything. BINGO.
4. he is simply a weirdo.

I’m leaning towards 3, and wanting it isn’t 4. But at this time, it’s just even more fascination than such a thing else-who is actually my mysterious pal “D”? Hi D, you’re probably checking out this…since you follow me on Twitter as well as!

Exactly what do all of you consider? Why are you willing to invest much in somebody you won’t ever plan to satisfy? Assist a lady out. ????

stsylko